Apology to Indradyumna Swami
In the last few weeks, I made a couple of videos and articles, strongly disagreeing with Indradyumna Swami on the point of sannyasi female assistants and young women dancing in front of harinam.
I discussed these topics with a few learned devotees who I appreciate very much and through these discussions I noticed a mistake which I did.
We all want to win philosophical discussions, but we should not win by saying things which are not correct.
In his letter to Patita Pavana prabhu, in which he writes his defense, Indradyumna Swami said:
There are many other women who served in close proximity to Srila Prabhupada over extended periods of time. They always conducted themselves properly. And so do the women who travel, or serve, with me.
In my reply to that part of the letter, in my video at location 17:10, I said:
When you tell me that āThere are many other women who served in close proximity to Srila Prabhupada over extended periods of time.ā, you are not telling the truth.
However, one of the devotee I take appreciate very much pointed out that actually, there are some female devotees who did serve Prabhupada on many, many occasions.
If we make vedabase search on biographies of Srila Prabhupada, we will find Prabhupadaās female cook named Palika, who is mentioned many times on many different locations. From such written evidence, we could conclude that Indradyumna Swami indeed had a point when he said that women served Prabhupada in close proximity over extended periods of time.
In Hari Sauriās transcendental diary, volume 5, Aligarh, October 9th, 1976,
ÅrÄ«la PrabhupÄda also called for PÄlikÄ. She is staying with some other women in a room at the back of the house. PrabhupÄda told her that since Mrs. Saigal was eager to cook for him he would allow her, but that PÄlikÄ should supervise her closely. Generally when he is traveling he doesnāt like to accept foodstuffs from others, because his digestive system is so delicate. But Indian culture is such that if you donāt accept this hospitality, it is considered a snub, so PrabhupÄda wants PÄlikÄ there to ensure that everything is prepared in such a way that he can eat without discomfort. PÄlikÄ had actually asked AkÅayÄnanda Swami to write to the Saigals about ten days ago with a request that a small kitchen be made available for her use, equipped with a double gas burner, shil and batta (grinding stone), urad, mung and tuar dahls, good atta (flour), basmati rice, and pure cowās ghee and milk, and they have complied. It was stressed that all ingredients be of the finest quality and that buffalo products be strictly prohibited because these are dangerous for PrabhupÄdaās health. As an added measure, MahakÅa prabhu, an English devotee stationed in VrndÄvana, was sent ahead with the list to make sure that the Saigals understood what was required.
So, she was obviously not there before Prabhupada arrived, and she came there to cook for Prabhupada. Therefore, she was either traveling with Prabhupada, or she came one day before him.
Sri Vrindavana
Then again, October 31st, 1976, location in Vrindavan, also from volume 5, Hari Sauri prabhu writes:
YamunÄ has prepared ÅrÄ«la PrabhupÄdaās breakfast several times during her stay and also cooked his lunch a couple of times. Now today she left for Calcutta to take up her cooking research. ÅrutirÅ«pa dÄsÄ«, who often helps PÄlikÄ with PrabhupÄdaās cooking, decided that she wanted to accompany her, and since the two of them were going, PÄlikÄ decided she also wanted to go. PÄlikÄ currently has a bad case of weeping eczema on her hands, and this is interfering with her service to ÅrÄ«la PrabhupÄda. She took permission from ÅrÄ«la PrabhupÄda after giving assurances that ArundhatÄ« would cover her cooking duties, although ArundhatÄ« is not as experienced and expert in the art. Last night when PrabhupÄda called ArundhatÄ« in and asked her to prepare iddli for his breakfast, she was quite nervous about it because she hasnāt made them before.
Then Srila Prabhupada nectar 1, Chapter 1, this is a book written by Satsvarupa das Goswami:
In MÄyÄpur, his cook PÄlikÄ dÄsÄ«, attempted an even stricter discipline based on the instructions of a famous kavirÄja from Calcutta. In this case, PrabhupÄda was to follow an intricate schedule by which he would take pills and eat and drink only at certain hours. This was in 1977, when PrabhupÄda was so sick that he was rarely coming down to the temple to give classes or to go on morning walks. One afternoon, a devotee named Änakadundubhi, unaware of the tight schedule of PrabhupÄdaās drinking and eating, brought PrabhupÄda a fresh coconut dob to drink, as usual. Although PrabhupÄda knew very well that he was not supposed to take anything at this time, he quietly accepted the dob and poured it into his cup. Just as he started to drink it PÄlikÄ came by and admonished him, āÅrÄ«la PrabhupÄda, youāre not supposed to take anything.ā
Bombay
This is from Aug 13th, 1976, also Bombay again, from Hari Sauriās diary, volume 4:
After everyone left PrabhupÄda took a little prasÄdam from PÄlikÄ. Inspecting his plate he asked her about one of the preparations. PÄlikÄ told him it was a sweet made by one of the girls here.
āNot everyone should make,ā PrabhupÄda told her. āShe is initiated?ā
PÄlikÄ confirmed that the girl was, but assured him that she would be making all his prasÄdam herself. She had had no time today because she had only just arrived.
Female Russian translator
One of the additional arguments that I used in my article, I said that I donāt believe that is it so hard to find Russian translator who is not a woman.
However, if we look english speaking population in russia, we can see that around 5% of people speak āsome englishā. That is not so much compared to Germany, where 70% of people speak english, or my country, Croatia, where 50% of people speak english. So, to find somebody who is good, who is a devotee, and who is willing to travel with Indradyumna Swami is certainly greater challenge than in other countries.
Conclusion
I want to say one additional thing at the end. Even though I donāt agree with Indradyumna Swami that young women should dance prominently in front of harinam, I consider this to be direct violation of Prabhupadaās instructions for women to be chaste and shy. Prabhupada mentioned that more than 1000 times in his works. However, it is better that all those girls dance in harinam than to dance in disco club. People who join this movement and start chanting Hare Krishna are in much better position than those who didnāt join this movement. Such souls are usually have at least some contact with Prabhupada and his books, and Indradyumna Swamiās credit is that he brought many such souls closer to Prabhupada.
Also, although I consider having female translator dangerous and not proper for a sannyasi, we have to admit a fact that Indradyumna Swami doesnāt have any known affairs with girls behind him, he is a sannyasi who is following sannyasi standards, with a few minor glitches, like patting young women on the head.
Nevertheless, sannyasa is dreadful order, and it is not easy to constantly travel and preach, this is something which I am obviously not capable of.
But we all have a duty to make this movement best movement that it can possibly be, and pointing out things that are wrong is also required. Discussing things that are wrong is also required.
I am definitely making mistakes in my attempt to point out things which are wrong, but my intention is not to be evil, my intention is that we all practice Krishna consciousness in best possible way to that we can all go back home, Back to Godhead.